Thanks again Tara! Sorry I'm so delayed on all my tags!
5 Things You May Not Know About Anders.
1. He's left-handed, which doesn't make a whole lot of sense because neither Christian or I are left-handed. The closest people that are left-handed to us is my aunt Amy and Christian's uncle Layne and his son Little Layne. He does everything with his left hand. He kicks, swings a bat, throws, writes and everything with his left hand.
2. When he sleeps, he has to have two binkies, one in his mouth and one in his hand. He randomly switches the binkies from his mouth to his hand throughout the night. This is a horrible habit that I'm still not sure how we will break.
3. His favorite things to watch are musicals. Christian's not very proud of this. His favorite show at the moment is Annie. My mom bought me this movie when I had surgery and Anders watched it with me. He wants to watch it about once a day now. We would worry if he didn't know how to throw a ball so well or shoot baskets with ease. Luckily, he's a pretty well-balanced kid!
4. His favorite thing to eat are Popsicles. If his ever says "pee-otto," he's actually saying "please Popsicle." I hear this more than anything everyday. We try to limit him to 2-3 Otter Pops a day.
5. In the car, he has certain cd's he wants to listen to and won't give-up until we give-in. These include High School Musical, Mamma Mia (hence his love for musicals), Wicked (only 2 songs), Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Wee Sing, and primary songs. I love to hear him singing the songs he knows. Again, it helps that he seems to be pretty athletic. We'll just keep working on that.
10.27.2008
Anders' Tag
10.22.2008
Shishin or Daddy?
I just had to add this funny little new-found freedom Anders has figured out. A few days ago, amongst some jibber-jabber that Anders was saying, we heard him say, "shishin." We both paused and said, "did he just say what we think he said?" We decided that there's no way he did. Where would he figure that out? The next morning (his birthday), he climbed in to bed with us and rolled over to Christian and said, "Dad...dad...SHISHIN!" Finally, Christian opened his eyes in disbelief. He immediately tried to convince him that his name was "daddy" and not "Christian." The more he tried, the more mad Anders would get. Finally, I told him to just let it go and it will wear off. The funny thing is that when we hear kids call their parents by their first name, Christian goes on and on about how disrespectful that is. It's almost like he jinxed himself! We thought maybe he'd forget it, but already today Anders has asked me, "where's Shishen?" He also pulled the morning routine thing again. It's so hard not to laugh. Christian really doesn't think it's as funny as I do. It will wear off, won't it?
10.21.2008
6 Quirks Tag
I was sitting here sharing some popcorn with Anders when I was reminded that Tara tagged me a long time ago and I totally forgot! Sorry Tara! I'm way behind and I'm going to hurry and catch up.
1. Everyone HATES sharing popcorn with me because I pick each kernel out piece by piece. I only like to eat certain-shaped popcorn and the half-popped kind. Yes, I actually do search the bowl for these particular pieces. Wow, that sounds even more crazy when I put it in writing. I'm a nutcase! Christian usually has me pick out my favorite ones and then he'll start eating.
2. If I don't do my exact routine in the shower, I will forget what I haven't or have done because I'm so deep in thought. I have forgotten to condition my hair, rinse my hair, shave, etc. I have to get back in and finish the job. I guess everyone has a routine, right?
3. (This one drives Christian crazy) I can't stand wasting my time in the bathroom because I am afraid I'll miss something. This especially happens in Fairview, when we're all sitting around the table chatting. Christian actually has to stop the conversation so I will go. I know it's not good for me, but I hate to do it!
4. I am EXTREMELY picky about what I eat. If it's fruit, it has to be flawless and very crisp. I can't eat mushy grapes or red delicious apples because they're just not crisp enough. If it's chicken, it has to be completely white. I totally examine it when I'm eating it and if I see anything like the nasty vein, I'm done. When I cook chicken, I totally dissect it. I cut out everything and lose half the chicken. My dad's favorite quirk is that I won't eat any kind of meat on a bone. Doesn't matter what it is, I won't eat it!
5. I know, I have major issues involving eating...but the list goes on! I have not been able to fully explain this to people and I don't understand it myself. There is a small handful of people that I can eat the food that they make by hand. I couldn't ever eat the treats people would bring in elementary for their birthdays if they were homemade. My small handful usually includes most of the people in my family and a few other people. It may have something to do with sanitary fears, but I'm not sure! I honestly can't explain it.
6. I have the hardest time making choices when I'm eating at a restaurant, picking a treat at the store (this one goes back to my childhood), or even at the grocery store. It drives Christian and my other family nuts! I get such anxiety when I have to make a decision and my time is limited. There are even certain stores that I go in that the first place I have to stop is the bathroom because of my shopping anxiety. Places like Borders, Target, Ross, Michael's....they're not good for me. There's too much to look at and decide from. It may have something to do with my major "buyers remorse" issue. I always feel like I could have made a better decision after I finally make the decision. To try to avoid this by trying to do as much research as possible about the items I'm going to be deciding between. Sometimes my family even makes me look at menus online before we go to the restaurant. I'm a nutcase, I'm well aware of that!
Happy Birfday Anders!
Yesterday was a very overwhelming day. My baby officially became a big boy and turned two. I was so surprised and pleased to see how much he really understood that it was his birthday. It made me so happy to see him be able to take it all in. All day, all we heard was "Anders' birfday." We started out the day by taking him on a special shopping trip to pick out a present with the money Grandma Larsen gave him. He is so proud of his red football. Ideally, he would have come right home and taken a nap. Since it's conveniently fall break for Daddy, Anders was
especially difficult to convince that he would be taking a nap. After a couple hours of "Super Nanny" techniques, we finally succeeded! I started frosting the cupcakes for the party later that night (obviously not early enough because Anders woke up halfway through it). He was so excited to see his "birfday cakes" and kept saying, "hold one, Mom?" It broke my heart to tell him no because I knew that he really didn't want to just "hold one." He also remembered that we told him that after his nap, we'd go to his birthday party at Chuck-E-Cheese (which could have been part of our nap time problem). Right when he woke up, he was pumped to go to the party at "Choo Choo Chesse." Here are a couple of pictures of Anders enjoying the gifts he got from his party guests and also some pictures of our rockin' family party at Chuck-E-Cheese!
Of course, Anders is saying, "hoo ha boy." If you've been following our blog, you'd know that he actually means "yee ha, Cowboy!"
Well, Chuck-E-Cheese was exactly what we expected. Even though it has only been open for a few weeks, it draws the same crowds as any other Chuck-E-Cheese would (if you know what I mean). However, there were about 15 times as many people there! I thought we'd waited long enough for the crowds to die down. Boy, was I wrong! Anders didn't seem to mind! Oh, did I mention that I was struggling with the flu the whole day?? That definitley added to my Chuck-E-Cheese experience.
10.16.2008
Wee Witches Weekend
I think I'm the only person in my family that has never been to Gardner Village. Even my little brother has been dragged to Gardner Village during Witchapolooza. He is still complaining about seeing all the women wearing sweaters with witch buttons. When we found out it was "Wee Witches Weekend," I couldn't pass it up! I found this great costume online for Anders. He is a HUGE Mickey Mouse fan. It's really hard to get him to take it off once he puts it on. It was fun to walk around and see the other kids in their costumes, but I have to say that Anders rocked the house. We had kids stopping and saying, "hi Goofy." It was so cute. Gardner Village is a fun place, but it's not really a shopping place for kids. The shops and things aren't set up for kids and could make a person crazy if they attempt to take a 2 year-old in them. I found it interesting that they would designate a weekend where everyone brings every kid they know. It created a very kid crowded place. The witches were cute and Anders loved looking at them. If you plan to go this weekend with your kids, don't plan on shopping! It's way too crazy.
10.06.2008
Oops!
9.22.2008
A Slight Change of Plans
Doc: Melissa, I'm so glad we had you go in there!
Me: Yeah?
Doc: Yeah, I'm going to need to meet with you and your husband to discuss the details, but apparently the Radiologist can see an 11 centimeter mass on your right ovary. What this means is that we will have to do surgery. Unfortunately, the best times to do surgery when you're pregnant is during the 1st and 3rd trimesters. You are exactly 12 weeks, so we're going to have to go ahead and do this tonight.
Me: Oh...
Doc: Can you have one of the Techs show you the way to Same Day Surgery and I'll me you up there in 10 minutes and we can talk before we take you in?
Me: Yeah.
I hung up the phone, not sure who I should talk to first, the tech that obviously already knew what I had heard, or my ghostly husband. I didn't know how to tell Christian what I had just heard, and I especially didn't want to do it in front of an audience. I decided to just ask, "where's Same Day Surgery?" While we were walking, I explained all that she'd told me to Christian. He took it better that I'd planned, but I also forget how he tries to "be the strong one" in front of me. We got up to the surgical floor and called my parents. My doctor arrived in amazing time and we sat and talked about all the risks. She informed us that this will be a risk to the baby. Of course, she went over other risks, but that all seemed minor to me. I could lose my baby? What was happening to me? My poor Christian had the job of filling out all my paperwork while they poked an prodded at all my dehydrated veins. Within minutes, they were wheeling me down to room 12. I remember asking my doctor if they were going to have to remove my ovary and she wasn't sure. I just said, "great, that's all I need. Anything to make the process more difficult, lets do it!" The next thing I remember was waking up to a man screaming, "I'm supposed to be at the hospital!" It took me a second to realize that I was in the recovery room. I listened closely as the nurses by my bed were talking quietly, not knowing that I was awake. One said, "did you see the pictures? I've never seen anything like it! It was massive!" The other one said, "no, but I heard about it. I hope they bring the pictures back in." At that moment I blurted out, "is my ovary gone?" The nurse ran over to my bed and said, "yup, but it's a good thing. Wait until you see the pictures." I just waited as I came more and more out of the medication, but was entertained by the man struggling coming out of his. "I'm supposed to be at the hospital! Where did you take me? My pain is at a 10!" I guess some people come out of medication differently. I tend to be chatty...poor nurses. They wheeled me up to the Labor and Delivery floor and I saw Christian pacing right outside of my room. He just looked at me with an interesting expression. The nurse wheeled my bed into its spot and immediately, Christian asked her, "did you see the pictures yet?" She said, "no, do you have them?" He proudly showed her and said, "Melissa, you can't see them yet. You wont like it." Whatever! I demanded to look at them and did everything I could to refrain from laughing because it hurt so bad. I was in total amazement. They informed us that my removed ovary was 18 centimeters, which is about 5 1/2 inches long! It felt so validating when Christian said, "you know how I questioned you when you rated your pain an 8? I don't question you anymore." Our entire hospital stay was filled with many emotions. I was constantly anxious every time the held the Doppler up to my stomach, for the fear that I wouldn't hear the baby's heart beat that time. It was such a rush of relief every time we heard it. They kept very close watch on our little baby. I have an amazing husband. He never once complained about being by my side for three days straight. The nurses kept telling him he was doing their job and they had nothing to do. He was constantly refilling my ice and adjusting my pillows. He can't stand the thought of someone else doing things that he could be doing himself. He very proudly showed my pictures to each visitor and nurse we had in our room. He held me up very tightly during each of my very slow walks around the halls. I could not possibly show my appreciation to him enough. This weekend reminded me of how excited I should be and am to have such an amazing companion to be with me throughout eternity. It was kind of strange to feel like we were on the set of Grey's Anatomy. I could hear the nurses outside my door all night talking about the pictures in my chart and how "cool" it was. They'd come in and say things like, "are you the ovary girl?" I was overwhelmed with how many people came to see us and sent their support. We feel so spoiled and are now understanding the reasons behind us feeling so strongly like we need to move so close to family. We don't know what we would do if we didn't. We're so grateful to be in the ward that we are and to be so close in proximity to our families. I came home from the hospital last night and am doing well today. I'm able to walk around a bit. They tell me that it will take about 6 weeks to completely heal. Lets hope sooner, considering my incision is about 5 inches vertically down the center of my stomach. It frightened me to hear the doctor's concern about my growing belly and my incision. Yikes! The bottom line is that I'm doing fine and shuffling my way through each day. The most important thing is that the baby is doing great and we are over the scary hump now! What a miracle! Christian and I ended up having a memorable weekend together and were blessed with all the time we could possibly want to share alone! Wasn't quite what we had in mind.
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Here is the picture I promised. The only reason I decided to post this is because I really don't think you can get the FULL affect unless you see it for yourself. I have yet to show this picture to someone that wasn't shocked. This was my right ovary that should be very small. As you can see, it wasn't. I appoligize for the graphic nature in the background. Just focus on the large organ and compare it to the adult-sized hands holding it! Now do you see why I laughed when I saw the picture???
9.17.2008
Full of Emotions
I have to give a quick shout-out to my AMAZING sister-in-law, Amy. She literally has the ability to do anything you wants to do. She has become a very professional photographer over the past few years and has quite the eye for it. I'm really touched right now, because she just posted a sample of the pictures she took of my family last Saturday. We are a very close family...I don't think anyone could argue that. Unfortunately, it has been a really long time since we've had our picture taken. We decided to get our pictures taken on the one day that we would all be together. My aunt Amy (not the photographer) got sealed to her husband PJ on Saturday. We all wondered if we were crazy to think we could do it all in one day. It got a bit stressful planning it. But right now, it's clear to me that the Lord had every intention of us doing it exactly the way we did it because he knew we'd need this glimpse of happiness we felt that day. That day was full of emotions for me. When we arrived to get our pictures taken, I found out that my uncle John had to take an emergency flight home to be with his wife. She had had two seizures and it was discovered that she had a brain tumor the size of an orange. His family (and Kenny, of course) are the only people missing from our picture. After the rough few days we've had with everyday bringing an update of not-so-good news, it is such a breath of fresh air to look at these pictures. It broadens my perspective so much. I am reminded of why we are here and where our focus should be. The memories behind these pictures will always be emotional and very meaningful to me. It was the day someone very special to me became one step closer and I know that I can count on being next to her for eternity. I know that the Lord knew how important this memory would be for our family and made it possible for us to enjoy the moment. Please take a look at the sample of our AMAZING family by clicking on this link.
http://clipsandclicks.blogspot.com/
9.16.2008
Happy Birthday Carly!
This is a surprise for Carly that we know she'll love! Carly has always been really funny about her birthday. When she was younger, she'd wait to see if people forgot her birthday before she'd say anything. It actually did happen once while we were in Disney World. She'll never let anyone forget that! Even to this day, she gets mad if people schedule appointments or meetings on her birthday. It even bothered her to schedule a dentist appointment for the day after her birthday! So, I guess the best thing would just be to set aside this entire week as "Carly week!" I wanted to make sure to be the first to wish Carly a happy birthday, which would explain why Anders is still in his jammies...just be grateful you can't see me! Happy Birthday Carly! We love having you live so close now and don't care that you're turning **! You're still the same old Carly that we love. Thank you for being such a great aunt to Anders. I love to watch him go straight to you when I tell him no. Please excuse my singing, I forget how dorky I sound when it's recorded.
9.07.2008
Thanks Tara!
What the heck, I guess while I'm on here, I might as well step up to the challenge Tara set me up to! Thanks Tarason!
7- Naps (especially lately)
The State Fair
8.21.2008
Good when they're hot...good when they're cold...
We have been waiting for weeks to take Anders to the Ryan Shupe and the Rubberband concert. He LOVES listening to the CD in the car. He basically listens to two songs. One is "Superman" and I think he only likes that song because he's a boy and loves anything that says Superman in it. His other favorite is obvious, he loves the Corn dog song! It's so funny to see him sing it. The lyrics are so cute. If you haven't heard it, you should listen to it. We tried to get a clip of him during the Corn dog song, but it was kind of dark. I had to take those two pictures of Anders with my cute little cousin, Megan. I just love watching her interact with him. She is so motherly and caring. She even caught his throw-up in her hand once! That was pretty traumatizing for her. Anders absolutely adores my cousins. They're all the perfect age to be his buddies and he loves how excited they all get to see him.
When we first got to the concert, we were so excited about these amazing seats we had. They were in the reserved section and it was really comfortable. Then, we spotted my family up on the grass. I took Anders up to see everyone and I could not get him to leave. My cousin and his...date were kind enough to switch us for our amazing seats up close for their grass seats in the back. It ultimately was a great switch. It was cozy and Anders had a blast!
8.07.2008
Harvard, here we come!
The other day at my grandma's house, we overheard Anders in the other room counting the chain links on her coo coo clock. We were amazed because he counted all the way up to twelve! After twelve, everything is "enteen, enteen, enteen..." I tried so hard to get him to do it again. Of course, he'll never do it when I want him to. At least I have a witness! This is the best I could do!
7.30.2008
We miss you Daddy!
Our house has been a little lonely since Sunday because Christian had to go back to Omaha to do his labs and other stuff. He gets to go back once a year, which is great for him because he gets to reunite with his buddies and do something new. It's not fun and games though, it is highly intensive classwork and studying. We were lucky this year because he only had to be gone for one week. We miss him horribly though! Anders tells everyone "daddy airpain." He gets so excited to talk to Christian on the phone every night and tells him all about his day. Every morning, he comes in my room and asks "ere's Daddy? Oh..airpain." He and Christian are such good buddies. He really misses his best friend. We're half way there! Can't wait to see you Daddy!
We've moved!
The long laps in time since my last post is due to our recent (long-awaited) move. We moved back to my old roots...in fact, we are within walking distance of my parents, my grandparents, three of my aunts and uncles, two of my mom's aunts and uncle, and three of my mom's cousins. The funny thing is that the only people mentioned that aren't in our new ward is my parents. We were a little nervous at first, but now, it is clear that we are exactly where we're supposed to be. Anders absolutely loves his new house! He gets his own "big boy bed" in his new room and even has a toy room! It's the best thing ever. We also live on a little farm and we have a chicken that peeks in our back door that Anders loves to taunt (and throw rocks at). There's also cows and horses that Anders runs along the fence line with. Our yard is so cute! I'm so excited to be exactly where we're supposed to be. We absolutely love it. I'll post some pictures of the inside later. Sorry, no outside pictures, that's just too risky.
7.17.2008
Why not join the rest of world?? Here's my Tag.
Here is a fun little game...Leave a comment on my blog of a memory that you and I have had together. It doesn't matter if you've known me for a short time, or a long time, anything you remember! Next, re-post these instructions on your blog and see how many people leave a memory about you. It's actually pretty funny to see the responses. If you leave a memory about me, I'll assume you're playing the game and I'll come to your blog and leave one about you. On your mark...get set...blog your memories!! You can leave a memory for me or Christian!!!
7.15.2008
This one's for you, Nikki!
Christian was as excited as a 9 year-old last week when he came home from work. Sitting on the front doorstep, he found the product of my nightmares for the next few days. We've identified it as a Wolf Spider. Now, throughout my life, I've seen a lot of spiders that we called "wolf spiders." I now realize that those were just measly house spiders (you get a lot of those when your house is a couple hundred years old). This spider was about 4 inches in length and its abdomen was probably 2 inches long.
The worst part about finding spiders is that my husband's weird country boy side of him comes out and insists that he keep it as long as he can. He even catches grasshoppers and things so he can watch the spider eat it. When we lived in Logan, he caught a Hobo Spider in our house and kept it for weeks. It's really embarrassing to talk about. Luckily, our little "friend" died on Sunday. We think one of the grasshoppers Christian gave him killed it. Hallelujah!
7.06.2008
It's always fun with the Firths!
My cute grandma and grandpa plan these fun Family Home Evenings a couple times a year, and this year was no exception! We took advantage of the fact that Amy and PJ's family was here from Arizona and partied the night away. We played a game called "Police Line-up" and found out that Christian was the oldest person to not have any tickets, Jessica has been to more temples than most people, and Carly's feet are as big as my 9 year-old cousin's. We also had a little program and a way cool drawing! Oh, I failed to mention that I spent the entire day preparing two of the largest dishes of lasagna known to man. It took me even longer than it should have because I wanted to make one spicy and one not. After all that work keeping the two meats separated, I labeled them wrong. Everyone who wanted mild, actually got spicy. Go figure! After eating and our lovely program, we played volleyball, had s'mores, and did fireworks. Finally, we watched "The Best Two Years" on the side of the garage with a projector. This one will definitely be difficult to top. Who would ha
ve expected my grandma and grandpa to plan such a shindig?
6 Years...and Counting!
- "The whole person for the whole journey."
- Christian's sweaty palms...what else is new?
- Cute little Megan screaming at the top of her lungs, "Sissy, where are you going" just as Christian and I were trying to sneak out of our luncheon a little early.
- Having to recurl my hair before the reception and being humiliated.
- The flowers in the pool sinking and seeing my wedding pary in their bathing suits trying to fish the flowers out.
- Dreading that I still had to wear my dress one more day at our reception in Fairview.
- My lovely photographer bailing after he asked us to pretend we were cutting the cake so he could take a picture.
This year for our anniversary, Christian took me to The Anniversary Inn. I've always wanted to go there. We stayed in the Dodge City room. It was so much fun. Our bed was a covered wagon and the shower was a waterfall shower that came out of wiskey bottles.
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